I really don’t do favorites.
Some have got favorite book, music, brand, movie and even pen! Oh yes,pen! I had a classmate who would write with only the Schneider pen.
Some have favorites but are not extremist with it. By extremist I mean if their favorite item or brand or stuff isn’t there, their life goes on pause for a while or they would have a mini meltdown.
I remember telling someone I don’t have a favorite movie/book and got the ‘you for real’ look. It’s okay to have that one thing that stands out for you any day or night.
But no be for everybody.
Whatever rocks ya boat,i guess .
I’ve got things and brands I like,but I rarely do favorites and cling to them.
Back in secondary school when there was this slum book craze, and you get asked best this,best that, favorite this..it was always hard for me to fill and took longer time cos I never really had best or favorite anything. I usually just choose what comes first to my head, and down the line realise “oh,but I really like this too!”
Same with friends.
I don’t have A #bestie.
I don’t have A #bff.
I’ve got close friends whom my heart beats or, and I can be crazy with and all that.
Again in secondary school I tried hard to have one, I couldn’t be left behind mbok….but for where! it didn’t work. I really tried hard at It oh. Some silly things I did coming to mind *palms face*
Puuhlease, do not get me wrong.. it’s not bad to have that omnipotent favourite stuff. It’s just not for everyone.
I think one reason for me is cos I like / love plenty things and it’s just hard and unfair to make one single choice. Also my love for some stuff can fade faster than saying ABC.
So to some things am loving now..cant say they are favorites but I really really like them
*Na you be God by Tim Godfrey, Eben and co
*My heart sings by William mcdowell
So whats your favorite this or that?